One of the main reasons I became a sexuality educator was to do my part in getting medically accurate while still being culturally accessible sexual health and pleasure information out to individuals. I was fed up with getting either no information at all, information that is filled with half-truths, or just plain wrong.
I made a decision long ago to make sure I was imparting sexual information that is not only accurate, but also empowering.
As an educator, I love giving people the opportunity to learn about certain risk factors as they relate to particular sexual activity and then letting them make their own decision about what level of risk they are comfortable with.
But what about this nagging sexual question I have?
I'm happy to report that I've set up a new email account (email@example.com) where you can send me a short question you would like answered. Depending on the length of the explanation, how many other people ask the same question, etc, I might decide to answer you in a youtube video. I might feature your question in an upcoming blog post, or I might just send you an email answer.
My parameters are that to keep it to pertinent questions related to body image, flirting, dating, or sex. I have no time for silly requests like "hey, will you blow me?" My most likely response will be to post on social media for all to see who you are and what you requested.
It would also be lovely if you do not write me a freaking long ass email with your question. Do me a huge solid and nut-shell it for me.
If you have a question, ask it. That's why I set up the new email account!